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Parkinson’s disease is a cruel illness that can isolate individuals, even though the severity of it is often overlooked. This disease affects each of us in different ways, and together we are making our voices be heard. We are working to make it a F.A.I.R. Fight, and we refuse to give up.

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11 Comments to Personal Stories

  1. Darrell Kinkel's Gravatar Darrell Kinkel
    April 21, 2011 at 6:55 pm | Permalink

    My very good friend, Terry Lape, was diagnosed, in his 50′s, with Parkinson’s Disease, a couple years back. Terry worked for me in the US Navy in the mid 1970′s. Terry is a terrific guy, a patriotic American, a talented Jazz musician and guitarist, and a loving father. Jazz (and his kids) are his life, and PD is now his biggest life challenge. He faces every day with great courage, super optimism, and a “can do” attitude, just like when he served his country in the 70′s. I am grateful too, for the Parkinson Foundation, and all that they do for the people suffering from this disease.

  2. Bruce Zingler's Gravatar Bruce Zingler
    May 12, 2011 at 8:51 pm | Permalink

    Just an Ordinary Man’s Perspective of Living with Parkinson’s disease.
    When the average person hears the words “Parkinson’s Disease”, the first thing that comes to mind is an elderly man or woman sitting in a nursing home unable to care for themselves due to “the shakes”. Although most people vision this scenario, a lot of times, their vision is far from the truth. Most sufferers of Parkinson’s disease, or PD, live an active life and aren’t necessarily elderly and don’t suffer from t9he tremors. Early onset PD affects thousands of people in their 40′s, 30′s, and even 20′s.
    Shaking, or tremors, is not the only outward or dominant Symptom of PD. Tremors, joint stiffness, difficulty speaking clearly, difficulty swallowing, frequent chocking, trouble walking, frequent falling, and being unable to care for one’s self are all symptoms of PD. Generally, PD sufferers can have all or even just one of these symptoms. Each PD case is uniquely different. No two people suffer the same symptoms due to body chemistry, exposure to chemicals, family history, DNA makeup and other factors. PD also can be right or left sided depending on which side of the brain stops producing a chemical called Dopamine which aids the body with fluid, smooth movements. These right or left sided symptoms can give way to both sides being affected. Adding all the variables together are what makes PD rather difficult to diagnose.
    Once diagnosed with PD, sufferers are on a lifetime journey of doctor visits, drug treatments that continually increase in strength, therapies, and even brain surgeries. PD will never go away, it continually attacks the brain and the symptoms become worse with each passing day. In some people, the progression is slow while in others the progression happens rather quickly. Support groups along with a caring support base from family and friends definitely help because of the depression issues most people with PD face. Neurologists now have many drugs and other procedures to use in the fight against PD. Most of the drugs are a synthetic Dopamine to reduce the tremors and rigidity. These drugs work well for a while, but the body builds a tolerance to these drugs. More of these drugs must be taken in order for the desired effects, and the more taken, the more side effects occur. Once the maximum dosage is reached, there is little in the way of further treatment. Within the last 15 years, a new treatment has been developed called “deep brain stimulation”. In the 6-8 hour operation, holes are drilled into the skull. Electrodes are placed in a certain location and the power is turned on. This procedure works well and cuts down the need for some of the medication. But, like the drugs, the DBS treatment does have its limitations also, being PD is Progressive. When patients reach the end of their treatment, all that can be done is to make the patient as comfortable as possible.
    Parkinson’s does not discriminate either. Some very famous people have contracted PD. Mohammed Ali, and Michael J. Fox are among the few that have the disease and also are strong advocates for the cure and prevention of PD, although some of the tactics they support are questionable, for example, stem cell research. Stem cell research is a very controversial and emotional form of research that takes stem cells from embryos and uses them to produce cells that help those with PD. But this is all experimental and those with PD must use traditional ways to deal with their disease.
    This is an average daily routine a person with PD must live through. Remember, this is just an average routine and lots of variables affect the day to day symptoms of PD such as weather, stress, physical activity and the like. Also there is the “ON days and the OFF days. If you are friends with or have ever heard someone with PD say “I’m off today”, this means the drugs are not helping much. ON days start out outnumbering OFF days by 5 to 1 but as the disease progresses, the opposite occurs. OFF days far outnumber ON days. The day begins by taking 4 Carbo/levo pills that must be taken at least 30 minutes prior to eating breakfast. Then comes the regular routine of shaving, showering and the like. Most people just breeze through these activities but people with PD need to think every move through and often need help completing these activities. Next, breakfast time. More pills need to be taken now due to these need to be taken with food. Trihexyphen, Pramipexole, a multi vitamin and other meds are taken now. Long about ten A.M., the tremors start to decrease if only a little. But the pain of muscle stiffness and the fatigue of the morning are beginning to take its toll. At eleven, 3 more Carbo/levo pills need to be taken and plans for dinner must be made. At noon, more Trihexyphen and Pramipexole and aspirins are taken. By mid afternoon, between the meds and the ever draining stiffness and tremors, a nap is usually needed. But it’s a short nap cause at 3PM, 3 more Carbo/levo pills are due. At Suppertime, more pills are taken and these are the same ones taken at breakfast and dinner. Then at bedtime, Lexapro is taken because patients often suffer from depression. On top of the regular meds, other meds are taken to help reduce the pain and stiffness like Flexeril, Tylenol, and other pain meds.
    To live a life that is half way normal, all these meds need to be taken. The worst part of these meds is the cost. If a PD sufferer does not have insurance or are well off or are lucky enough to have the state to help them out, money problems can be unbearable. At times it comes down to buying meds or keeping a roof over their head. Then there are the doctor’s visits and neurologists visits that need to be paid for. PD, like so many deceases, is definitely not a poor man’s disease.
    Going out in public is a totally different story, especially on an OFF day. People stare and whisper and little children often laugh at the tremors. Often complete strangers will walk up and say something about one of their relatives having PD and how they treated PD and even how they died from it. Restaurants are tough to go to also. Tremors can make picking up a cup of coffee a messy situation or having someone cut up food and/or being fed. This creates embarrassing situations that cause further depression.
    Again, PD patients need a firm foundation of understanding to help them though the tough times they will be faced with soon. This begins at home and also their circle of friends helps a lot with positive feedback. One of the best ways is to join a support group. If there isn’t a support group in your area, consider starting one yourself. For many years PD sufferers had to contend with all the side effects of having PD all alone because PD was the “silent decease”. Now with proper education and treatment, anyone can learn how to live a more normal life with Parkinson’s.

  3. Jill Ordi's Gravatar Jill Ordi
    May 15, 2011 at 9:00 pm | Permalink

    My mother is 80. She has had PD for last 8years. She has tremors on left hand. One thing that is really bothering her and scares her, is the severe body weakness, pain on left ear and numbness on left side. Is body weakness and feeling that she is dying related to parkinson? None of the doctors can tell.

    Thanks.

  4. Linda C's Gravatar Linda C
    October 9, 2011 at 8:10 am | Permalink

    I was walking my daily route (2 miles) at approx. age 38 with my australian shepherd “Belle” and my left knee started to collapse on and off so I thought that was strange. I ignored the weakness in the left leg and increased exercise,strength training. I went for a couple of years with the left leg weakness then at age 41 I began having migraines ( left sided) and a small tremor of my left hand. I went for numerous CT scans, MRI scans, Spine scans ( only few cervical bulging discs found) and blood work. The neurologists were thinking MS but it wasn’t, and they couldn’t figure my symptoms out. I had some Parkinson’s symptoms but I was a “Mystery” case. I then began having falls. I could no longer go on long walks and so I continued with my at home strength training. Then I found I was not walking well ( left sided weakness, left sided tremors got worse). The specialist at Emory gave me Sinemet ( carbidopa-levodopa) and to my amazement the tremors stopped and I could walk better. I was diagnosed with an atypical form of Parkinson’s. My family has moved around because of being in the military so finding support groups can be challenging. I go to a water-therapy and I try to keep as mobile as I can. The medications are life changing but at the same time cause fatigue and side effects one of which is nausea. I am now 46 and had a bad fall 3 yrs. ago which caused a painful disc tear/L-5 DD in my low back. I have had numerous epidural steroid injections to control pain and now I have to deal with Parkinson’s and a back injury. I sometimes feel old before my time but thankful I can still function. I am now living in Dover De( kind of rural out here) and looking for a support group. My grandfather had a twin brother who was diagnosed with Parkinson’s and also a family history of Huntington’s disease.. I was tested for Huntington’s and was thankfully negative. Life has it’s ups and downs when you deal with chronic illness, chronic pain from injury but with my walking cane, water therapy and medications I keep on going full speed ahead even if it is at the speed of a turtle! The actor, Michael J. Fox who was diagnosed with Parkinson’s at age 30 is an inspiration to me and to so many people who suffer with movement disorders.

  5. Darla's Gravatar Darla
    February 10, 2012 at 2:31 pm | Permalink

    My name is Darla. My mother is 67 and has been diagnosed with PD for 10 years. She has typical symptoms and severe dementia. My grandfather was diagnosed at 73 and spent the last 7 years of his life in a nursing home. My uncle will be 60 this month and was diagnosed with Dementia with Lewy Bodies about 3 years ago, and the disease has progressed quickly. My grandfather might have had Dementia with Lewy Bodies because he progressed much like my uncle has. My mother would like to donate her brain to science but I haven’t found a place willing to take it because she hasn’t been part of any research trials. Columbia refused, the Parkinson’s Institute of California will take it if we pay the autopsy fees and the Fox Foundation isn’t involved in brain and tissue donor banks. All they did was send me a list, really no help at all. I think that it should be made more aware that to DONATE a brain to science for research is very difficult. Had we known, my mom could have been part of a trial. Maybe some of the money from the walk could be set up into brain donation grants to help other families like mine. I feel like all of my family’s suffering will be in vain because we can’t help anyone else. I have participated in the walk for the past 5 years but find myself unable to do so this year because of all the money going to research, I still can’t find a place willing to take my mother’s brain. I plan on writing to the head of the NPFM, the Star Tribune and Burt.

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